Questions..Questions..Questions...

who's gonna tell you when it's too late
who's gonna tell you things aren't so great
i said you can't go on just thinking nothing is wrong
you can't go on just thinking that nothing is wrong

I spent the evening watching movie "50 First Dates" on my desktop computer. The lyrics above is one of the OSTs. I feel moved on hearing it for the first time so thought to devote a whole page of my blog to it.

How true is the fact that sometime we get involved with things so much that, we never really get time to look on the things as they are, and we like to see them as they should be, from our perspective. without confusing it all, i should say that in those kind of situation where we find ourselves emotionally involved, we just kind of overlook the truths/facts and assume that life is all normal. Atleast i find my decisions go awry during these situations. Is it my vulnerability to emotions that force me do things which i wont have done otherwise? or am i a person with abnormal levels of emotional quotient (EQ)?

Is it human to keep moving into depth first manner which means delving deep into certain poor decisions (committments) until and unless you realize that things are going wrong and the going is getting tougher? Well i think that it can be a pretty lame excuse to justify your acts but, it can't be the truth really. Now the question is that how to know what is wrong and what is right? Isn't the notion of right and wrong is somthing relative? Like what is right for one could very well be wrong for others? So how to make judgements? Should we shed all the emotional baggage (which essentially means stop acknowledging any sort of committments or bonds or ties ) and start acting like machines? The obvious answer will be a firm NO, then is there any way out of this emotional dilemma? I think that this is some topic which will keep me in dilemma for long long time... Still thinking about it..